Why Do Men Enjoy Sucking Boobs?
We understand that guys are interested in our boobs. We want them to like them, which is why we spend so much money on lingerie and dresses that show them off. But they can be a little too into them at times.
Have you ever noticed guys who stare for a long time? Or do you like to jiggle them? Or do they think they’re pillows? Or are you preoccupied with the effect of weight gain or loss on your boobs? It can be quite bizarre.
And, let’s be honest, while we want our boobs to get attention, there’s sometimes a disconnect between what we want them to do and what they actually do. Even if they are doing what we want them to do (as we hope in any sexual situation), they may not be very good at it.
Why do men enjoy sucking boobs?
Boobs are odd in that men seem to be obsessed with them for a variety of reasons.
It could be mommy issues — is that sucking beginning to feel like he’s breastfeeding? Or it could simply be that you have something they don’t, which makes them more appealing. It’s also possible that they believe sucking on your nipples gives you pleasure, making you more likely to have an orgasm.
All of these things are possible, and there may be more going on than you realize — some of it quite strange.
Here are six unusual things that can occur when a man sucks your breasts during sex.
1. He might not be very good at it.
“Whenever a man sucks your tits and he’s into it and romantic, it can be enjoyable; when he’s doing it just to turn you on and adds some awkward twists to your nipples, it can be a real turnoff,” says Carole Lieberman M.D.
When a guy is nipple-sucking or licking nipples in an unusual or uncomfortable manner, it degrades the mood and does not feel good if he is not doing it correctly.
2. You might have an unexpected orgasm.
A nipple orgasm is something that can happen unexpectedly. It’s not strange, but it may frighten some people. According to sexologist Carol Queen, nipple-sucking can cause this reaction in some people.
If you want to give it a shot, tell your partner to “suck my boobs” and see if you get an unexpected surprise; if you like it, that’s even better. If you don’t, you now know.
3. You could lactate.
According to Queen, if the suction is strong enough, a small amount of fluid can be emitted.
If you’re lactating, a partner sucking your nipples will cause them to emit milk, which is unusual if your partner wants a taste of your own breast milk.
4. He could go back in time to his childhood.
“Some people may consider a partner’s total breast-sucking response to be kinda over the top… appearing regression to babyhood can happen for some people,” Queen says.
5. He might make suction sounds.
Tanya Tate, the Vivid Radio host, says, “The wet suction noise of sucking on my boobs can sound like a baby breastfeeding!”
6. You may become extremely perspiring.
We’ve all noticed our boobs sweating while riding the subway or running between appointments.
It’s natural and normal, but you don’t want him to start tonguing that area and getting sweaty nipples. Gross.
